ConstellationStudies I agree totally. Except I'm concerned about your pizza-corn predilection and that according to your profile photo you are an unhappy-looking cat. Prove me wrong.
Fetisha I agree totally too. Sometimes the past behavior of certain individuals makes me say things to myself that aren't true, like my last girlfriend did this or that horrible thing to me so I hate all people now and never want to have another girlfriend. I don't think it's true of any type of relationship that one type is better than another for guaranteeing we won't be hurt again in the future, the important thing is our behavior in that relationship and the other person's behavior. Prove me wrong.