Does anyone else have to put up with this? For the however many hundredth time in my life, people with reputations are getting me in trouble just because they don't like me and they have leverage with authorities.

How do you deal with people getting away with lying about your character, expecting you to prove them wrong rather than them proving themselves right?

Authorities and accusers call me impractically difficult when I ask why accusations are accurate about me. They say I should just get it. and call me autistic and retarded afterwards when I don't get it even though they're not clear about what they say.