Do you guys ever feel like you miss out on things because it always requires permission or invitation from someone else and you never get invited or you're never given permission? You can say that you want to sign up for something all you want, but if the person in charge doesn't like you, you never get anywhere.
This includes stuff at work and at school. Some jobs and some activities at school require certain types of experience or leadership, but if you're never given the opportunity for such things, how are you supposed to learn what you need so that you can move up in positions for jobs or move up to other officer positions?
I just feel like people who get voted because they're popular are the only ones considered even if they don't do their jobs very well just because they held a title that other people want to see. Even if you might be a better candidate for work or for school, you always get ignored because you didn't have a title.