Not sure if you are getting any kind of help for your anxiety? Therapy and the likes. That would be the best place to start for anybody. Just to be able to talk about how you are feeling. As for unborn baby? I doubt anxiety, before they are born, would affect them. That side of things would be more when they reach a certain age. If they are around a mother who is always anxious. By then they can pick up on how people react to things. Worth adding in that not all kids can pick up on these things. Just some. But that would be a few years down the line.