And I have dumped many friends in the past, that is why I don't have many friends now, I am trying to be less rigid and more forgiving. It does frustrate me when I try to be understanding and the other person still doesn't want to spend time with me.
My coworker/friend just called and thanked me for the cake, she said I was always so nice and that embarrassed me and I didn't know how to respond, I have got to work on my social skills more!!! But I am glad she called and she really appreciated it, she was sick and her son was sick too so both of them stayed home.