stuck in a spiral of negativity. I need to snap out of it...
stuck in a spiral of negativity. I need to snap out of it...
I'm on top of the world bagged myself a 1:1 degree, [BEEP] still can't believe it.
life---><---me
Well donelasair
I'M GONNA FIGHT 'EM ALL
A SEVEN NATION ARMY COULDN'T HOLD ME BACK.......
killer of conversations
Got a case of the fuck-its. This is NOT the time for the fuck-its.
First job after college starts in an hours - pretty nervous!!!
life--->
"I will not let my bad days consume me."
Good luck!!
I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. -- Maya Angelou
still not feeling fabulous
Pickin' and Grinnin'!
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Today went okay - it was a day not being part of the staff but I think I will find my feet fast enought!!
life--->
Socially inept Koala
Fucking depressed
Don't want to get out of bed. Not avoiding anything, its just too cold out there.
life--->
Hurt. Tim made a "joke" that he needs to fatten me up more so no one will want me... He apologized but I wish he could have maybe come up with something nice to say about me. I already feel like I gave next to no good qualities.....
I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. -- Maya Angelou
Diggin' My Potatoes
With somewhat dry, self-deprecating humor like that you've got to read between the lines. It was a nice comment about you, albeit indirectly and at the expense of betraying a little insecurity on his part. He's saying that as you are now, he see's you as being very desirable — perhaps more so than he feels he deserves, and thus he's joking that he should make you less desirable so someone won't swoop in and steal you away from him. It may not have seemed like it at the time, but it was a compliment.
“Scratch any cynic and you will find a disappointed idealist.” — George Carlin
"If it's true that our species is alone in the universe, then I'd have to say the universe aimed rather low and settled for very little." — George Carlin
Yeah I get the joke and why he said it. I also get that the punch line infers that I don't have any other qualities that attract people. Or value beyond that. Mostly I'm upset that he couldn't name anything good about me other than "smart" and "pretty" when pressed.
So I guess I better not ever get fat(ter). Apparently not being ugly (ATM) is my best quality. >_>
I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. -- Maya Angelou
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