The beach. That may not sound too strange, but I loooove the beach. One of these days I'm going to buy an RV, and I'm going to live on the beach. It's a strange obsession I've had since I was a little kid. I think I was a fisherman (or a fish) in a past life or something lol.
What's a huge deal breaker for you when it comes to a partner?
I save things. Ticket stubs. Pictures, of course. Wrist bands. Post cards. Field passes. I'm just strange that way lol. All of it goes on a huge bulletin board I have above my desk. I have pictures there, memories there from 35 years ago, from when I was 11 years old, and some from last month. I have a picture on it of my first gf, when I was 12 years old. Lots of pictures of my kids oc. That bulletin board is like a snapshot of my life, of my whole world, of everyone I've ever loved. I'm out of room I have stuff pinned on the borders, and now on the wall.
I suppose not getting help for my issues when things first began. Complicated with myself. I just got on with life. Should have gotten help for something at a certain time. Thus problems arose about five years later and here we are today.