Anything bothering you right now?

[IllusionOfHappiness]

The seemingly endless self-destructive thoughts and how I hate myself for not being stronger.

I understand. I'm there right now.

Also, long time no talk.

[Anteros]

I could really use some huggers right now.

[L]

I could really use some huggers right now.

Best friends gran died ....not sure what to do....

[RawrJessiRawr]

Literally had someone post a fb status after we hung out saying how boring their night was :/ then delete it today so i wouldn't see but i seen the post -.- i was on fb right after we hung out. Now they are hardly saying anything to me.

[takethebiscuit]

Literally had someone post a fb status after we hung out saying how boring their night was :/ then delete it today so i wouldn't see but i seen the post -.- i was on fb right after we hung out. Now they are hardly saying anything to me.

Totally understand why that bothers you. And you're just feeling your thinking here. "Boring night" could mean anything. The person could have stuff going on their life which meant they couldn't enjoy the night out as much as they might have liked. Your thinking has been trying to link "boring night" with you and your thinking has been trying to tell you that you caused this person's night to be boring.

Therefore, the power to hurt you is not in what was said. The power to hurt you is in your thinking. You're feeling your thinking. You know you're a valuable, good person no matter what anyone says about you. Your validation comes not from what others say about you but from the expression of you really are.

[takethebiscuit]

Best friends gran died ....not sure what to do....

Let your best friend know you're there for them if they need you. Your best friend may need some private family time but just them know you're there for them if they need you.

[WintersTale]

I am avoiding everyone, because I feel they hate me. I don't think they would even miss me, if I was permanently gone.

[CeCe]

I could really use some huggers right now.

I am avoiding everyone, because I feel they hate me. I don't think they would even miss me, if I was permanently gone.

You are pretty well liked around here from the looks of it. SA might be getting to you.

[L]

Let your best friend know you're there for them if they need you. Your best friend may need some private family time but just them know you're there for them if they need you.

Yeah thanks - I let her know I was at the funeral and that I will come see her later in the week - just hoping that is enough with regular texts just to see if things are okay!

[JustGaara]

Feel so slow and dead. I have no energy to do anything anymore except watch shows on Netflix or JustDubs/AnimeFlavor. No matter how much I sleep, I feel tired when I wake up. I really want to be able to get stuff done, but I feel like I just can't.

[CeCe]

Feel so slow and dead. I have no energy to do anything anymore except watch shows on Netflix or JustDubs/AnimeFlavor. No matter how much I sleep, I feel tired when I wake up. I really want to be able to get stuff done, but I feel like I just can't.

[CaduceusGUILT]

I could really use some huggers right now.

[JustGaara]

Thanks! I managed to write ~2 pages (of 7-11) and clean my room. Small victories!

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What's bothering me now is that my friend is becoming increasingly anxious and paranoid talking about stuff like chem trails and the whole Dec. 21st end of the world thing... And I have no idea how to help him. Or even what to say that doesn't sound dismissive.

[RawrJessiRawr]

I have jury duty tomorrow :/ im kinda nervous...anxious. Actually really anxious.

[CaduceusGUILT]

I really ought to learn how to shut up. I think I'm alienating too many people around me.