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Broke up with my partner yesterday. Three years and he's fucked it up.
He just levelled a load of accusations at me that have no basis in reality and then refused to talk to me. I told him yesterday that I had accepted a place on a computing course next year in Wales, that'd I'd started looking for housing. It's like every single fucking time something good happens in my life something always blows up. I don't even think he's doing this deliberately, but it's there. And I know for a fact that he struggles with the fact that me (bipolar/panic attacks and "worse" in his head) can cope with a uni course, and is managing to move away to get a higher level degree and he (OCD/depression, and "not as bad") is unable to do so. (and for the record, I do not think bipolar is worse than OCD/depression.)
I don't know why he couldn't just apologise. I don't know why if there was a problem, he couldn't discuss it like an adult to someone who's been with him for almost three years now (we would have been in two weeks or so) instead of playing the avoidance game.
He's said to me he has problems apologising because he doesn't want to appear "weak". But to who the fucking whom? 😥
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