Sometimes you have family members and friends talk to you about something serious and they say they're talking to you because they care, and that they wouldn't talk to you if they didn't care. But why does it make me feel like crap if they talk to me because they care? I feel like our relationship isn't worth it if they're just going to bring me down constantly and not be very supportive. I just feel like I should end the relationship and try to meet someone new.
Am I giving up too easily or overreacting to people being critical of me? I thought caring about someone was not making them feel like crap because of what you said.
Sometimes it even makes me feel like they want to get rid of me in some way. If people are constantly criticizing me, I'm going to take that as a sign that they don't want me around. If people are about you, why would they make you feel like they don't want you around?