Please don't refer to the forum in question. It is looked down here. I try my best to avoid saying it here.
As far as the posts that I made on the other forum, I either was frustrated or misunderstood. I've made a March resolution to be kinder, more understanding, and more tolerant of others opinions. I know I'm one of the people that you're probably talking about, but I generally tried my best to stay out of the arguments...and created at least 2 threads, asking for gender wars to stop.
Anyway, I'm trying to become a better person. It's a shame that not everybody takes that road. I think there is a middle ground between the arguments, but of course neither side will see it.
And this place is a lot calmer than the other forum, because nobody is creating those threads here. If they ever did, I probably would leave.