@chantellabella-
Neither you nor anyone else should feel uncomfortable about posting your real feelings on any topic. The OP should not be seeking neither complete acceptance nor 100% agreement from Respondents. If they are then life for them is a fantasy world. I welcome disagreement. I may not like it (I mean who would), however it gives me a different perspective and increases thought process. And there is a huge difference between expressing conflicting views and being mean or judgemental. There is another site where I feel I am being judged completely and I become defensive. That is not to say I don't give the conflicting views consideration. However, some individuals don't have consideration for others and that is when it things start to become judgemental.