What do you avoid due to Agoraphobia?
What do you avoid due to Agoraphobia?
. Lifts, tunels,brigdes, shoping centres, open places, tight places, public transport , you name it
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Grocery shopping. Going far away. Public transportation. The beach. Disney. The mountains. All kinds of fun places.
I moved to New York years before I had agoraphobia and now I can't leave. I'm missing all of my family. I can't see my own fucking brother grow up.
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No not really just posting how agoraphobia affects me I am not around people and don't get out to go into stores or see my doctors or do my testing or surgeries etc.. I am ok really some days are worse than others of course. Hope you are doing good!
Dating lol. There's a girl I want to ask out that I work with sort of...we don't work for the same company but we're in the same stores a lot of the time. I just want to take her out to lunch. Maybe for a drink after work. Meh. She'd probably just say no lmao.
You're going to lose people in your life, and realize that no matter how much time you spent with them or how often you told them you loved them, it will never seem like it was enough.
Hug the ones you love.
I know. I mean, you're right, and thank u for the advice. I just don't feel like I know her well enough to even ask her out to lunch or something. I'm probably not asking her out because my fears are a lot of the time irrational.
I have a lot of anxiety about unintentionally hurting someone in a relationship. Or being hurt. A lot of the anxiety and irrational fear stems from my last serious LTR, that ended when she committed suicide.
I realize I'm not in a relationship with the woman I work with lol. But I'd be anxious about it turning into something more. I want to find my soulmate, I want a relationship but at the same time they scare the hell out of me. And I realize how irrational that sounds. I'm sure it doesn't make sense to anyone that hasn't been there. I wouldn't really expect anyone to understand lol. Hence the whole irrational part of it. The way I think can be pretty screwed up sometimes, I'll be the first to admit that.
It'd be just a lunch date, not even a real date, I get that. But my anxiety isn't always based on rational fear. It doesn't make sense sometimes. I'm my own worst enemy.
You're going to lose people in your life, and realize that no matter how much time you spent with them or how often you told them you loved them, it will never seem like it was enough.
Hug the ones you love.
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