Infertility

[Cassie]

Anybody else struggle with infertility it down right suck?s and it hurts on a very deep emotional level I hate people comment keep trying it will happen just stop trying so hard it will happen etc I currently according to the fertility specialist don?t have any labs showing it?s a me thing but my husband?s sperm well some of his sperm swims in circles doctor told us a IUI is a good option for us but naturally we can?t conceive until his levels change he takes fertility supplements for men but now I am scheduled for a hysterectomy per my request for borderline Serus tumors it?s frustrating because I have another 9cm mass growing off my ovary I?ve had 4 surgeries in a year now but am now second guessing the hysterectomy given the fact my doctor seemed admit he generally didn?t want to do it I feel like I am giving up on the chance of having a child I know we can afford IUI As long as each procedure is around 2,500 or less we discussed only doing 2 cycles his sperm 2 to 3 cycles donated then IVF is a final option with a loan at this point surrogacy is tricky in Michigan would require lawyers court fees and proving that Child is ours even if it?s our sperm egg implanted into a surrogate so we are very apprehensive to go that route we have discussed looking into adopting fostering but might adopt from out of country I?m fully aware this entails legal processes as well we just feel they aren?t as tricky like surrogacy


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[Pinky]

Anybody else struggle with infertility it down right suck?s and it hurts on a very deep emotional level I hate people comment keep trying it will happen just stop trying so hard it will happen etc I currently according to the fertility specialist don?t have any labs showing it?s a me thing but my husband?s sperm well some of his sperm swims in circles doctor told us a IUI is a good option for us but naturally we can?t conceive until his levels change he takes fertility supplements for men but now I am scheduled for a hysterectomy per my request for borderline Serus tumors it?s frustrating because I have another 9cm mass growing off my ovary I?ve had 4 surgeries in a year now but am now second guessing the hysterectomy given the fact my doctor seemed admit he generally didn?t want to do it I feel like I am giving up on the chance of having a child I know we can afford IUI As long as each procedure is around 2,500 or less we discussed only doing 2 cycles his sperm 2 to 3 cycles donated then IVF is a final option with a loan at this point surrogacy is tricky in Michigan would require lawyers court fees and proving that Child is ours even if it?s our sperm egg implanted into a surrogate so we are very apprehensive to go that route we have discussed looking into adopting fostering but might adopt from out of country I?m fully aware this entails legal processes as well we just feel they aren?t as tricky like surrogacy


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If your doctors don't want to do the surgery why do it? Have you spoken to a specialist in the area of saving your eggs?