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    Do you feel guilty saying no?

    To any situation? I even have trouble with telemarketers and high-pressure salespersons.

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    Yes.

    Then I learned, "Burden of proof is on the affirmative." If someone asks you for something, and you're not satisfied, then you don't have to do so.

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    I used to - but now, when proper boundaries are up, then it is okay.

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    I used to. Now, I say no before people even ask me the question.
    The Hokey Pokey IS what it's all about

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    F*ck no

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    Most of the time I do, so I rarely say no. :/

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    Depends on who the person is but mostly hate saying no
    life---> <---me

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    idk, feels like im disappointing people saying no :/

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    I used to. But the older I've gotten, the less I give a crap.

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    Always. I find it tough to stand up for myself and I'm afriad of disappointing others

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    Yeah, almost always, even when I'm completely justified in saying so.
    If you ever drop your keys into a river of molten lava, let 'em go, because man, they're gone.
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    Always. I feel too sorry for others and hate to make them feel bad. Even if they deserve it.

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    Depends on who the person is, but with telemarketers and salespeople, it's no problem.

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    Si' the chance that they may think ill of me for it.

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    Bumping as I don't know how to deal with this

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