I've never had self-esteem. I've always felt bad about who I am as a person because I never been very good-looking, or intelligent - I always got bad grades and low test scores. I wasn't a nerd or beauty queen to make up for it. Bullied in school damaged every bit of self esteem I had. I'm to anxious to meet people. Feel like an outcast. I don't want this to attract pity, but rather I would like advice on how I can overcome this problem.