Others always expect too much of me because I put on a false persona. Its my real personality, however it gives the impression that I am outgoing and smart, competent and confident etc.
My anxiety gets really bad and I cannot manage to do a good enough job of anything because of it. As a result people are constantly disappointed in me and I always let them down.
I am constantly forced with the choice of hurting others so I can do something, or not doing things so I dont hurt others. Essentially between a rock and a hard place.
When I talk to others its only a matter of time before I say something really offensive. I cant stop hearing my voice from repeating the words of what I have said. The worst part is I never get an opportunity to undo any of my mistakes. People always pretend and lie, so you can never apologize.
How could you possibly deal with constantly hurting or disappointing others (that haven't done anything but be nice to you)?