Lately my neighbor seems to in my mind anyway, gathering information on anything, my family and kids do and feeding it to an annoying neighbor that I really want nothing to do with. She is friends with both of us, the annoying neighbor and me. A few years ago due to some weird incidents I stopped associating with the annoying neighbor. I'll say hello and that's it. She's mean and I can't think of any better word for it.

I really like our neighbor, but if this continues. I don't want to talk with her. This is the type of thing that always happens to me. Then I totally withdraw from people and I'm the bad guy when I have perfectly legitimate reasons for avoiding people.