I am not seeing any progress with my autism organization!

[Peter C.E.]

Right. So if you saw my prior thread, you might recall I posted about how they lied about my former key worker. Well, lately, they have been pissing me off so much.

I'm due in court Friday 19 December which is just next week, and I cannot go back to my flat until some unspecified time period, if ever. However, my mail still goes there. So I called this guy up one night while he was doing the sleepover duty and he says he cannot leave the building to hand me my mail, even though it would have took all of 20 seconds and I cannot go on the street itself and he claims he would have to blab to the cops if I did, which is 100% bogus.

I also asked if a senior will attend court to see what happens and the same guy who would not fetch my mail says I quit my support so they are not "contracted" any more to help me, but those fools are responsible for this mess I am in, to some degree. For months now, the court bailed me to my family's house, and I have had to live by their rules and annoyances.

Luckily, the flat is not too far from the edge of the street, so I would not be 'breaking my bail terms' by waiting there. Huh? But he ended up being awkward and I broke my mother's cordless phone out of frustration a few weeks ago after I got so worked up over him.

But I am sick of them now. They all ignore my moaning emails. I have been spewing my guts out for months over losing support workers that I cherish and not one person there answers me. I also sent them messages on Facebook. I used my debit card to pay Facebook to have the messages go into their inboxes, but no-one answered me. Even people that left the job never answered me either. I am just getting the brush off treatment.

They also said before that nobody can have a pet in the flat, but then residents there bent the rules and brought cats into their homes, and so they uplifted the 'no pets allowed' policy so not to get accused of playing favourites.

I will never get those two women back as my aides again (the ones they know I become infatuated with), and I went to jail twice over them too, to be remanded for contacting them. It is absolutely shocking the way I have been treated, but I will always remember the negative outcome ONLY, if they truly are out of my life for good. I do not see WHY it had to play out like this.

The company also employed this man years ago, who pretended to know my ex-girlfriend and he sent me abusive emails from a website I used to ask people about her whereabouts. At the time he just toyed with me and he left in 2010. I saw him last year and he just acted all cool with me.

What can I do about the agency being unfair to me?

[Chantellabella]

Right. So if you saw my prior thread, you might recall I posted about how they lied about my former key worker. Well, lately, they have been pissing me off so much.

I'm due in court Friday 19 December which is just next week, and I cannot go back to my flat until some unspecified time period, if ever. However, my mail still goes there. So I called this guy up one night while he was doing the sleepover duty and he says he cannot leave the building to hand me my mail, even though it would have took all of 20 seconds and I cannot go on the street itself and he claims he would have to blab to the cops if I did, which is 100% bogus.

I also asked if a senior will attend court to see what happens and the same guy who would not fetch my mail says I quit my support so they are not "contracted" any more to help me, but those fools are responsible for this mess I am in, to some degree. For months now, the court bailed me to my family's house, and I have had to live by their rules and annoyances.

Luckily, the flat is not too far from the edge of the street, so I would not be 'breaking my bail terms' by waiting there. Huh? But he ended up being awkward and I broke my mother's cordless phone out of frustration a few weeks ago after I got so worked up over him.

But I am sick of them now. They all ignore my moaning emails. I have been spewing my guts out for months over losing support workers that I cherish and not one person there answers me. I also sent them messages on Facebook. I used my debit card to pay Facebook to have the messages go into their inboxes, but no-one answered me. Even people that left the job never answered me either. I am just getting the brush off treatment.

They also said before that nobody can have a pet in the flat, but then residents there bent the rules and brought cats into their homes, and so they uplifted the 'no pets allowed' policy so not to get accused of playing favourites.

I will never get those two women back as my aides again (the ones they know I become infatuated with), and I went to jail twice over them too, to be remanded for contacting them. It is absolutely shocking the way I have been treated, but I will always remember the negative outcome ONLY, if they truly are out of my life for good. I do not see WHY it had to play out like this.

The company also employed this man years ago, who pretended to know my ex-girlfriend and he sent me abusive emails from a website I used to ask people about her whereabouts. At the time he just toyed with me and he left in 2010. I saw him last year and he just acted all cool with me.

What can I do about the agency being unfair to me?

Hi Peter C.E. You asked me to comment on this, but I'm not sure what to say. In regards to your mail, can your parent go get the mail for you? You said you are presently living with them, right?

Since you and the support place had problems in the past that resulted in you being jailed, I'm not sure you're going to get any cooperation from them. Maybe legally they can't have contact with you.

Rather than continue to obsess over their ignoring you, can you maybe focus on things you CAN do? Can you seek another agency? Or find another outlet for support? It sounds to me like you're going to get nowhere with the previous group, so continuing to try is not productive nor healthy.

If it's ok to ask..............does your parents have conservator rights over you? If so, then you may need to discuss another option with them.

But the more you continue harassing the people at the past place, the more you show them that you are unstable. Letting it go would certainly let others know that you're choosing healthier behaviors.

Just a thought.