Otherside
I feel guilty a lot of the time when I can't manage something due to my anx/depression. Really gets to me. Guess I spend a lot of time trying to act like I don't have the issues I do. By the time I get back home, I'm exhausted and collapse, but it's what I try and do. Act like a person who doesn't have SA and who didn't spend the whole day depressed.
Wish I could help you, but I don't know how. I've been told that I need to cut myself some slack. Apparently I put pressure on myself, and I'm beginning to see that too. Maybe it's you that has expectations of yourself, and not others? I thought it was others who had expectations of me, when really, it was just me. Looking at it that way may help you, it my not.
And what winterstale saying is true. Eccentrities aside, I've come across a few seemingly "normal people" who in fact have issues of there own. I suppose everyone does really.